Let Bygones be Bygones !!

“If you want to fly on the sky, you need to leave the earth. If you want to move forward, you need to let go the past that drags you down.” – Amit Ray. 

 Very often, we get stuck in our past. The old memories, beautiful or sore, keep coming back to us, haunting like a ghost from the time that is gone. Happy or sad, refreshing or heart-breaking, memories always fill our eyes with tears - be it tears of sorrow or joy. While the past might seem to be holding us tight, it is best to let yourself loose from it.
There is a reason why clock always moves in the clockwise direction, time always goes ahead and so should we. As you look back, there should be nothing more than lessons learnt and experiences gathered. Whatever happened, happened for a reason.  But, you alone are responsible for deciding whether or not to allow it cast a shadow on your present or your future. However great or bad your past might have been, you will always be known by what you are today and your vision for the future.
At times, it might get difficult to forget and let go of the past. In such cases, you should always remember that you are the only one to get affected by the decisions you make today. So, instead of holding back, start gearing up for the future. Make it so bright that all the clouds of gloomy past disappear. What’s done is done, it constitutes merely a chapter of your life. Hold the pen, take control and write the story of the book named “Your Life” with such passion that whoever reads it, marvels at your courage; let your story be gripping, comprising of ups and downs but ending with such a beauty that leaves a smile of admiration on the readers’ faces.

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